你快乐吗?
这段文字。。。其实在几个月前的《幸福小信箱》和你分享过。。。
之前说过,懒虫常爱来干扰我的生活...尽管他们不曾离开过,我仍旧觉得是时候该写点什么了吧。。。
于是我乘懒虫在小休时,赶紧记录我的心情。。。
如果你不曾在广播中听过,就在这里和你分享吧。
你是不是也一样?每次听到一些歌曲就会唤起一些回忆。过去的经历也变得历历在目。
“这首歌是我和他第一次约会时所听到的。。。”
“那首歌是他在我们拍拖五周年时所唱给我听的。。。”
当然,有时候,可能是生活中所发生的一些事让我们想起了某一首歌。。。
在过去的几个月,身边的几位朋友都陆续了传来了不好的消息。
从甜蜜的二人世界转变成了孤独落单的生活。。。
不,又或者是。。。
从争吵不休的二人世界升华为安宁自由的单身城市。。。
结束一段感情究竟是好的还是坏的?
只有你自己最清楚。
我常会问他们。。。撇开分手初期的思念和难以适应的感觉,分手会不会为你带来解脱,带给你更多的快乐?
过去的回忆真的是没法擦掉,但是以后的路却是自己选择的。
不管你想怎样欺骗自己,它们都已经写入历史了。
每当朋友告诉我它们已结束了一段感情,我一定会想起这段歌词。。。
孙燕姿《开始懂了》
“由昨天还是好的,但明天是自己的,开始懂了,快乐是选择。”
快乐掌握在自己手中,你要不要去选择它?
快乐与否,你来决定。
18 Comments:
Hahas JiaHui..
Thought u said before, ur blog is more picture den words..
This post seem to be like no picture but lots of words..
hello JH, would like to ask you qn about working at 933...can i request you to email me @ kim_magpies@yahoo.com?
thanks for your help!
hey, took some photos of peifen and you on a random event not too long ago.
http://garysg.multiply.com/photos/album/2
let me know if you want to originals ;)
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no matter how, when, what, where happiness's in your hand. even though how hard you tried, it's still not yours. e one u luv is getting married but e bride is not u.. tat's e most difficult path to accept...
Indeed, it is a matter of choice of being either happy or sad ...be it in or out of a relationship.
All those emotional scenarios linking to those sentimental songs over the radio can be a tuff cookie to handle (especially when you are down and out.. every songs seem to tell your sad tale)...i suppose some lyrics will potray some feelings (be it good or bad) experienced in a relationship.. which is why they call them - Love Songs... Love can be a double edge sword
Everyone has a choice in what they want in their lives and how they want to lead them... Try not to succumb to any pressure but only after logical analysis, determine what is the best for the long term.
Of cse, human can be selfish and only want what is best for themselves..but do spare a tot for others when making a decision especially on emotional matters..That is easier said than done but nevertheless a factor to ponder over.
The choice is always yours.
i love this entry of urs...so meaningfu..hope to see more of this =) n hope ur 'lan chong' don come haunt u ;P
hello! how do you type chinese into your blog? can u teach me? =)
你长得很像香港的江芷妮.
Get well soon!
Take care!
hi.i knew ur blog thru i-weekly. ur phone how many mega-pixel. the pic is quite clear.recently saw ur pics on FHM.u made a good choice by choosing not 2 wear too sexy.bcuz, in most ppl's heart, u r the 乖乖 kind.
by the way, i am only less than 15. toking about age. pls reply my comment. thxs.
whoa.. chim.. but meaningful.. ^.^
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hi. i am ur fan. heard dat u r on FHM. the pics r so nice. good u did not choose 2 wear bikini. wad model is ur phone model. how many megapixel?
YoYo
are thinking of unhappy things?
no need frown..must =)
Yong
hey girl, its me - liying. though not very sure will you get to see this comment, but just wanna say that even if you let go, doesnt mean you have forgotten. memories are memories, once created, you can never remove it from you...
choose the cint's blog instead of froggy09... thanks!
hope to see your reply soon...
hi li ying, yup i saw ur msg...and ur blog. do u mind if u send me some of ur fav "xiao pin" for use in "xing fu xiao xin xiang"? i like some of e stuff u wrote...email me yeah? thanks. =)
Well, I would think, loving someone who is initially not belongs to you is really hard to forget. But if after that than you know what really went wrong, you will feel even more sad as maybe those problems can be solved immediately. But cos the other party did not mentioned so there is no chance to change.
Recently, I heard from him that what keeping him/rejecting my love is due to the following reasons which I think if he told me earlier, I can change. He said he mind that his galfriend do not share problems with him. That was what I told him in the past. But that was my foolish thinking in the past. I do admit, when have problems, it is always good to share. But I really have to say, not all problems I would share. If I knew when I said it out will make the other party worried or sad, I wouldnt tell in the first place. If I decided to keep it as secret, that will be forever.
Anyway, it really sadden me though we are still friend now. But I really hope that he is my 真命天子. Who can save me??? Who can help me???
jiahui.. i very sad now, my uncle just passed away not long ago, but not long after, my sis is having her traditional dinner... mixed feelings rite now, what should i do?
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