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Sunday, April 01, 2007

随想。。。

i finally spent e day tidying up my room...my room was at its neatest during CNY...and usually e most messy b4 and during the annual shift change in March.

So u can imagine my room was only neat and tidy for a couple of weeks b4 it OFFICIALLY turned into a pigsty for e past 4 weeks...haha!

and since i came back from tokyo, i dun seem to have e time to tidy up and pack my stuff...so this wkn, finally finally finally, i have some time to myself and to finish up my chores...

and i FINALLY got myself a garment steamer last night! $200+++....but well, it does lighten my ironing load a bit...

haven had e time to blog last mth cos other than preparing for my 一周好萧遥 shift, there were so many things on my mind...

i have thoughts to share but dunno how to start...so many things on my mind which there'll be no conclusion on...

but well, basically, i realise that 人生最难的习题就是人与人之间的关系。

和家人。

和朋友。

和每一个人。

你的一言一语可以让他感觉爱,或感觉到受伤害。

小时候,不须太在乎别人的想法。。。

不,不是不需要。而是因为小朋友有任性的“特权”。

“小孩子不懂事啦”。这是别人为我们而设的借口。

长大了,不一样了。

是被迫成熟吗?不是被迫的。

是自己总要长大的。

因为之前家里办喜事,所以得帮父母的忙。得和妈妈商量如何把事情处理得面面俱到。什么是该做的,什么不该做?

人与人的关系很复杂。

但是,我乐意也努力地在学习。

因为只有在自己能够在待人处世方面做的好,才可以和晚辈们分享什么是对,什么是错。

哈哈!好像把自己说得很老!我还年轻得很!

只不过看到一些父母亲没能把一些正确的价值观灌输给孩子时,就觉得那样会害了孩子。

像最近刘德华的粉丝的个案。。。导火线是因为父母对孩子的溺爱吧。。。

如果身为父母的都不晓得什么是对,什么是错,那么凭什么来教导孩子?

我们总得为自己的一切负责。虽然依赖,从某个角度来说,是很幸福的一件事,但是父母帮不了我们一辈子的。。。

所以自己得长大。

如果有一天,别人得依赖我们,喜欢依赖我们,是不是意味着我们已长大了,已有能力照顾别人的呢?

如果有一天,那成真的话,对我们来说,应该也是一件幸福的事吧。。。=)

13 Comments:

At April 01, 2007 , Blogger AhKai said...

Got alot of thoughts then must write down here if got time to write lo..haha...

JIayou o!!!

 
At April 01, 2007 , Blogger -melvin- said...

Hey Jiahui,

wah

so fast got new post liao

got time write more wor.

 
At April 02, 2007 , Anonymous STELLA said...

不好意思,
想问一问,
你新年时候去的纸火锅日本餐厅,
是在哪里啊?
谢谢哦^^

 
At April 02, 2007 , Anonymous Angel_Devil said...

I C I C,so u all went to Tpkyo that time huh. now than i noe.
I not very神通广大hor.
heehee

 
At April 03, 2007 , Blogger Lupin Tan said...

嘉蕙,

你好.

鲁斌.

 
At April 03, 2007 , Blogger ~// TinG+TInG //~ said...

hahs.


i SERIOUSLY LIKE yr PROGRAMME !!!




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At April 03, 2007 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

这世界本复杂。。。

 
At April 04, 2007 , Blogger host said...

這是一個真實的世界,想要成熟就要接受不完美。

 
At April 05, 2007 , Blogger audreyy said...

hello i really like what you say in this post.

 
At April 09, 2007 , Anonymous Ck said...

Like what jiahui mentioned.. In this world, the most complicated and unpredictable thing is not computer, not maths, but human relationship..

btw, i have the info for the steamboat, search the net for Waraku (和乐). They have it :p

and hey, jia hui, keep up ur good work..

ck

 
At April 29, 2007 , Blogger xin hui said...

你说得没错。。。
多希望人与人之间的关系可以变得简单一些。

 
At May 09, 2007 , Blogger host said...

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At July 08, 2007 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ya, absolutely agree wif wat u said.Human realtionship philosophy is the hardest i ever known. Anyway, gambate oh!

 

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